Ladies, do you want a high-value man? In this episode, Patrick Bet-David breaks down 20 rules for young women to attract a high-value man.
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So I want to preface what this video Isn't and what this video is this video Is not one of those articles you read on Huffpa that tell you how awesome you are How like you know unicorns exist a Fantasy world don't worry about it women You don't need men this isn't it let me Tell you what this is this is a video Coming from a guy who was 22 23 year old Playboy that would go to Vegas 26 times A year I partied religiously and then Eventually I became a high valued man I Realized my value in the marketplace and I stopped playing and I wanted to wipe And build a family and that transition I Went through now a couple things not a Marriage counselor not a psychologist I'm not a therapist I'm simply sharing My philosophies with you some which is Going to piss you off you're going to be Upset but this is a video specifically For both men looking to go out there and Be a high value man and for women saying I would like to find a high value man Having said that let's get right into it Okay so ladies first thing you've got to Know is whose life do you want to model There are a few different options you Have one do you want to be one of those Women that says I don't need a man I'm Independent I make my own money I'm a Girl boss I'm a girl this I'm a I read These books written by women who've been Divorced five times if that's who you
Want to be fantastic that's one model The other one is you know honestly I Just want to find somebody who is Rich Successful and I want them to be the Husband the money maker I don't want to Work I want to stay home I want to just Have kids and that's all I want to do no Problem the other one could be well I Want to model after these women who are Going out there partying hardcore yeah Maybe they're single moms and they've Had three kids four kids by four Different men but they've had a time of Their lives you can model that life as Well or the last one maybe I don't know Pat I kind of have my own identity I Have my own interests I have my own Career but I know I want to have a man Who is the alpha of the family who is The high value men I'm not trying to Compete with them I want to be a Co-pilot he's the leader in the area of Our family where we're going and I'd Like to build something like that with Them fantastic you got choices and by The way I'm sure there's a lot of Different options on who you want to Model after out of those for a woman you Get to pick and choose it's your Prerogative you're an adult you choose Now before you go out there looking for High value men it's very important for You to know how they're wired if you Don't know how they're wired you don't
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These types of men if you want that They're out there if you want something Like this you're probably not going to Get that from them number three this is Tough one to embrace their marketability And their value is just going to go up The more they age the more they succeed The more they win their marketability And value is going to keep going up so You just got to keep that part of mind There's not going to be declining There's just constantly going to be Increasing the better they get the wiser They get the more they succeed number Four they don't chase they attract so Meaning they don't mind courting because They want that they want to court they Want to go through that process but They're not Chasers so you know the Whole thing up you know let me do this Three calls he did this I can't call him Back I can't pick up if he does this They don't play the chasing game they're Constantly attracting good people in Their lives they're not turned on by Games number five they're typically very Confident this doesn't mean they don't Have any insecurities this doesn't mean They walk on water this doesn't mean They don't have any anxieties or Different things like that they may you They may never share it with you but You're gonna get a feeling being around Them that they're very very confident
Why because to get that level of natural Confidence takes years and years of Hours to put into to believe you are Valuable that you produce that type of Confidence number six they take care of Their body this doesn't mean they're all Bodybuilders with six packs but Generally a high value mandate exercise They have a decent diet they don't fool Around when it comes down to that Doesn't mean it's Perfection but they do Take care of their body so they expect Their women to also take care of their Body number seven they're not needy They're not clingy they're not Constantly seeking your approval and Some want that some want their meant to Constantly be seeking their approval You're generally not going to get a lot Of that from a high value man number Eight they have life goals they're going Places they have a vision they want to Go out there and do something big so if You are expecting this person to be at Home at five o'clock every night because That's what your dad did the question You have to ask yourself is you may love Your dad but was your dad a high value Man if the answer is no he was just a Good man it's very different than a high Value man that's got big goals in their Lives that they're in the hunt with you Can't say well I want them to be like my Dad and be home at five o'clock but I
Want them to be thinking big there's a Big conflict there you have to Understand that part number nine they Take responsibility if they're going to Screw up they're going to take response If this is a real man that's a real Leader with the right character they Take responsibility when they screw Things up and they'll generally improve Last but not least you have to know when You do become a high value man you've Already been through a lot of different Relationships you know the game you see The signs they understand certain red Flags yeah I don't know about this and They know when you're faking it or Acting too much to make sure you seem Perfect they've been through that as Well so they're not turned on by those Games they know the game they understand The game they play the game they just Want to retire away from the game Because they want to have a family they Have bigger plans with a person that They want to run with so understand that Part that they're very clear about how The game goes so now before I get into The 20 rules of young woman when it Comes down to dating high value men you Got to know a couple things there's Different places that we meet people Nowadays right and it's very different Than when it was in your 2000 or 1995 Today there's Tinder and Bumble there's
Bars and clubs there's business where You work at through friends and church Right now there's a statistic that came Out talking about what type of Percentages of a relationship and Marriages work out the most here's what It said on study they did based on 2000 Different people the article is titled Relative strangers the importance of Social capital for marriage the study Found out 12 percent of couples who meet Online get divorced within the first Three years of marriage compared to two Percent of couples who meet through Friends and family and after seven years These statistics are roughly 17 and 10 Percent so now the reason why this is Important as well is is to know when It's online dating there's only so much A person can learn about you you know if It's through Friends Church different Places you're able to learn more about This person because you can ask grandson What do you know about her what do you Know about him what can you tell him About him so also know where you're Marketing yourself or where you're Looking for if you're going to Tinder to Find a husband just know what he's Looking for you should not be surprised If he comes in asking you day one to go Home with them because Tinder is Typically the expectation is one now Some people say you're wrong I met my
Husband on Tinder we've been together For six years I don't solve my success In life based on Exceptions there are Exceptions to everything I want higher Odds of success and the higher odds of Successes if you your day through Tinder And Bumble the higher likelihood of Getting a divorce is a lot harder than Going through friends and other places So just keep that part of mind having Said that let's get right into 20 rules For young women when it comes down to Dating high value men let's get right Into it number one if you see men as the Enemy good luck finding a high value man Simple as that you cannot see man as the Enemy why do I say this a lot of times Mothers who went through a divorce and Maybe married a man who didn't treat Them well they indirectly put that Mindset into their daughters their Daughters at six years old seven years Old 10 years old 15 years old have heard How many times that Mom has talked smack About the dad eventually the daughter Becomes a 22 year old woman who sees man As the enemy if you see them as enemy Good luck finding a high valued man Number two if you do land a high valued Man and you start dating him the job has Just begun this isn't about oh my God I'm dating Larry do you realize how Awesome he is he's a high value man Let's see if you can keep him let's see
If you can keep them just because you Got them doesn't mean you got them Forever this is work you know it's not Like a you're good for three months and We can act for three months six months Later the truth shows up a year later Wait a minute who am I dating here and Then eventually you're like maybe you Dated them for a year maybe for a year And a half but you can't keep a guy like That you got to make sure you can keep a High value man not just attract a high Value man which means it's work both Sides it's work we got to do our part You gotta also do your part number three Body count Matters by the way men may Not tell you but it matters okay when a Person I'm doing a job interview with Them and they tell me in their resume They've had 20 jobs in the last 10 years I don't want to hire them because There's a reason why they've had 20 jobs In 10 years okay they can't keep Somebody together the other part you Know how when you go out there and You're just hooking up having a lot of One night stands left and right thinking No one's going to tell anybody A man who hooks up with you for one Night and you say let's keep it between Us his level of loyalty is zero to you Meaning he'll brag about hooking up with You to his friends and his peers because He owes you nothing there is no such
Thing as a one-night stand keeping it Secret it's going to lead to other People so if you do that constantly People are going to know a high value Man is going to be like you know what I'm gonna pump the brakes here you're Not for me I like you a lot but not for Serious relationship you ever heard a Saying a woman can tell within the first 30 seconds to a minute whether they're Going to sleep with a man or not you Ever heard that part before a man will Also tell very quickly whether this is a Girlfriend that they're going to show Off to their friends or family or if This is just somebody they're gonna have Fun with okay they will know very very Quickly on how you carry yourself when It comes down to having class you either Have class or you don't have class one Can't act classy here's what I mean by Back in the days when I was 21 22 I Would I would go to these Financial Meetings acting like I'm well off Financially I'm doing very good for Myself maybe maybe I can fake it for Five minutes maybe 30 minutes but about An hour later the client found out this Guy's broke we're in DSW Shoes we're in A three-day soup broker suit and Ross Thai he has no clue what he's talking About this guy doesn't have any money Work on having real class real values Real principles because there's no need
To act it's real so this next one's not Going to be very popular but it is what It is so let's just say you have a high Value man that you really like and he's In a relationship for about a year you Come in and somehow some way he likes You you become the side chick he drops The girl he's with to be with you so now He is with you six 12 months later don't Be surprised and upset if he's got a Side chick this relationship started off With you being a side chick you can't be Not surprised saying I can't believe He's got a side chick you just may not Be the person that he's willing to Settle down with you just may be Somebody that he just wants to have fun With so look just because somebody's a High value man doesn't mean this person Wants to settle down and get married Today maybe their timeline is five years Three years eight years ten years There's a part of it that's on you to See if there's any signs that this man Is eventually going to want to do that Or if they're just having fun okay and And that part there's not a manual to it There's not a book to read about it it's Purely intuition it's got you'll know About it when you get that feeling trust It but don't jump to conclusion too Early maybe give it a month or two or Three before you say no this one's not Going anywhere I do want to have a
Family right now I can't wait for this Guy my time is coming make your decision Move on but just know it's going to come Down to your intuition this next one is A little amateurish but a lot of women Do this and I don't recommend it never Brag about how great your man is in bed Okay never I can't tell you from a Personal story I had one she would do That all her cousins would call me and Wanted to find out what it was like I Don't know if that makes sense don't Brag about how great your man is in bed If he's great in bed and if she's great In bed keep it to yourself it's nobody Else's business this next part is Something you've heard a million times You know you control you control Everything because he has what you want Right he has what you want you set the Tone you set the standard uh and this Well you know this is no longer the 60s Who cares about the first date you Choose what the standards are but the Sooner you get intimate it just means You don't value it that much and a man May sit there and say well that was kind Of really quick how many other people Were you this quick with value take your Time before you decide to just give it Up that easily I think it was Steve Harvey that says wait 90 90 days I don't Know what timeline he put that book that He said Think Like a Lady act like a man
Or something act like a Lady Think Like A Man great book if you haven't read it Read the book his timeline I believe is 90 days but do protect it don't give it Up that easily this next one about only Fans it's so funny I'm doing a business Meeting in Long Beach California this One girl gets up drop that gorgeous she Asked me questions times are really hard On real estate I'm going through this I'm going through it I'm going through This and I look at her and I said look Um there's a lot of people right now That are being tempted to make money Through on defense she starts crying Okay like literally she starts crying so When she cries you already kind of have An idea she was also either tempted or She did it because it's easy money to Make when you're that beautiful go make Your fifty hundred thousand dollars a Month right it is a choice you can make But there's a very different big Difference between you doing that those Things are permanent you have to explain It to your kids to your husband to Everybody when that becomes public Unfortunately back in the day save Somebody that's something like only fans That wasn't a camera where everything's Going to be public social media Instagram it's a very different ballgame Today a man who has another girl that's On only fans may have fun with her may
Even be interested in having fun with Her but it's different when it's coming Down saying I want to build a family With this person again Well that's not true I know somebody That did this I'm going with odds I'm Not going with the exception make sense So this next one is very interesting I I Have seen a lot of men who are high Value they've been around been around The for very long time but I've also Seen when a guy's dating a girl and then Publicly she makes a comment to Embarrass him that's a very personal Embarrassing comment and then a month Later he breaks up with his like she Just doesn't understand the Dynamics That you never publicly embarrass your Man especially if he's a high octane High value man you just don't publicly Embarrass them when you do that do it Privately hey babe I don't like how you Wait the way you handled yourself that Was not cool have the conversation with Them do not do it publicly uh they will Not that will not go well so you have a High valued man this doesn't mean every Pressure needs to be on him he knows you Bring a lot of value to the table as Well okay so what could that thing be Could be finances could be family it Could be faith it could be Fitness it Could be relationships it could be a lot Of different things but you have to
Bring your own Dynamic to the table as Well that is an area of strength that's Not his so what are some areas you bring To the table you can have some Confidence from that area when they say This is what I do well I'm going to be Able to do this I'm going to be able to Do this I'm going to be able to do this Fantastic trust me a man is going to sit There and say that's very valuable to me Man I'm so glad she brings that to the Table because I don't listen reputation Matters I understand we hear about you Know repetitions what other people say About you about characters who you Really are your reputation matters when It comes down to dating high value men Men are going to call around and say Well can you tell me about her what are You going to do about her he's going to Call around and if he doesn't He's not doing his part the high value Man that I know is going to be calling And saying hey you know this girl has She been this has she done that has she Done that and are people going to be Talking I remember one time she dated That guy that one time we went out she Was drunk and she did this and she did That okay cool you're not expecting for Perfection because if any girl that Seems a little too perfect she's Probably got a lot of things filled in The closet generally there's going to be
Something but protect your reputation Because it's going to follow you never Bash your exes it doesn't matter what it Is never bash your exes if you bash your Last three X's I'm gonna be the fourth One and I'm not interested in that hey How come your last relationship didn't Work honestly we were just on different Pages you know he wasn't somebody I saw Myself being with long term good guy his Own thing not interested we want Separate ways and uh you know I'm just Not you know don't sit there and say he Was this he was an idiot he was a He was of this not attractive don't say It in a way where she's like you sound Like you kind of are interested in but Don't also go out there and Bash on the Guy talking about how big of a loser he Is your social media profile laws matter If I go on your social media profile and I'm like okay there's one butt picture Two butt picture three butt picture man She's like all over the place what is This oh my God there's a bong there's This there's that yeah I'm gonna have Some fun with her no one's gonna meet This girl this is just a girl that I'm Gonna have fun with so protect your Social media profile because they're Gonna look if you have interest in Competing with your man and beating him Like you know what I'm going to do Better than him in business and I'm
Gonna do this Don't expect to find an alpha male you Know high value man you're probably Gonna end up with a beta milk it's gonna Be okay with you beating them because Alphas they have no interest in Competing with their wives They want to lead their girls that's What they want to do so this next one oh My God I can't believe you're saying This you're so old school uh men are not Interested in you having male friends Well Pat How about if it's just one no He's gay I don't care he may change his Mind Pat come on Pat you can't say that I'm telling you Even if he tells he doesn't care he Cares okay but I've known him from high School from second grade from first Grade even worse You're mine I'm Yours let's roll I'm not Interested in you talking to other men Wow this is so extreme you know you're Such a machismo saying this don't worry About it I'm just telling you I'm around These types of men all the time they're Not interested and you're having too Many male friends And too many is one if you and this man Date for a few months and it's getting Serious in his mind at one point if he Wants to get to the next level with your Marriage engagement all this stuff he's Asking what kind of a mother are you
Going to be he'll be watching you and The way he'll judge what kind of a Mother you'll be is how you treat him Okay how you treat your younger siblings These are ways that they're watching to See what kind of a mother you one day be Because that's something they value a Lot so if he doesn't take you in public Places around friends and family He likes you for fun But he doesn't want to be seen in public With you as his girlfriend okay may Sting may hurt But many men have done that I've done That myself Fun a few months I'm with a girl no one Ever knew about it because I just knew We're never going to be long-term Together we're just having fun so you Know this whole thing about virginity You know no I'm not telling you to be a Virgin and all this stuff I'm not Telling you that you choose to do that Based on your faith that's up to you Many do I'm not telling you that but What I'm saying to you is the following So a guy goes out with two different Girls one girl's like oh my god I've Never been to this restaurant before Oh My god I've never been to this Spa Before oh wow this first time ever I was On a private jet I've never flown first Class before I loved Santorini this was Amazing Cinque Terre great never been to
Dubai amazing so the guy's like oh yes Yes he's feeling good because he wants To give you the world right show you the World right the other one he goes I was Here two months ago honestly the food Wasn't that good tonight Okay hey yeah this Resort is good but I Like to Spa more in Beverly Hills oh my God you are so annoying go find somebody Else I'm not the guy for you now let's Just say she has been around and she Says I've been to this restaurant before But oh my God I had such a good time With you thank you so much for taking me Here tonight oh this Spa what a great Experience it was tonight thank you so Even if you have be grateful say thank You don't act like you've been around All over the place because all he's Thinking is it's probably been with five Other guys that had money what am I Going to be doing she's been around okay Just keep that part of mind he's Thinking he may not tell you this but He's thinking about it because many Times we're thinking a lot of thoughts But we don't tell you but we're thinking It so there you go if you're upset if You're happy if you're glad you watched It it's my perspective okay whether you Like it or not these are some of my Philosophies now if you've never seen a Video 20 rules for young men click here To watch that video take care everybody
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